Many people that I know confided to me saying that
they are
going through a very difficult time due to divorce, financial crisis or
loss of
aging parents. So I decided to leave my computer today and go to my
famous
Jacuzzi to meditate and pray.
I am so glad that my entourage never makes fun of
me when I
say that I need to go to the pool, meaning “I am going to work”. My
husband and
sons know that this is how I get my insights, while I relax in the hot
magical
water.
To those going through a separation, if the chest
area hurts,
sadness may indicate that you could still work toward a solution to
avoid
divorce.
Tightness in the throat means that you cannot speak
your
truth. Pain in the stomach area indicate loosing self-confidence and
self-power. Depression and headache may indicate resentment and anger.
Back
pain addresses fear based emotions.
As incarnated soul we must use our free will to
direct our
mind and decide what intent will control our destiny.
If you don’t want to suffer the effects of
identification feeling
victim of a situation or of the control of someone (boss, spouse, etc.)
you
have to be ready to step out of unconsciousness and give power to your
Higher
Self alone.
We either follow the voice of the ego that wants to
be right
and point fingers with blame, or we are willing to listen to the loving
inner
wisdom of compassion, acceptance and forgiveness.
In Christian baptism the priest asks the audience:
“Do you
renounced to Satan?” And the crowed respond: “Yes, I do”. “Do you
recognize the
Holly Ghost as the only power?”
“Yes I do” is again the answer, showing the willing
decision
of following the Divine Source of Love and letting go of the temptation
and/or
slavery of the ego. Of course this does not have to be a religious
ritual. To
me it is a spiritual daily practice leading to be in the Presence of the
Divine
and yield permission to his Angels and Ascendant Masters to help me in
my
choices.
This is a decision of true spiritual engagement
manifested daily
in the smallest and apparently insignificant tasks of our duties.
When the counter top of your bathroom is filled
with empty
coffee cups and toothpaste, the wet bath towel on the floor, you have
two
choices. Been upset would infuse negative energy and feelings that will
lead to
more chaos responding to the law of attraction. The second option would
be like
thinking with some humor: “Oh well, at least I know who was here today
with me.”
Yes, my house was perfect before the invasion of
the four males in
my life (husband, sons, and dog). Sincerely, however I would not trade
my actual
life for a million!
Now, when a more serious subject bothers you, you
have to
express your feelings. At the right time, without anger and with
detachment if
possible, when the other person involve is also receptive, we can speak
our
truth in a loving and respectful way.
Suppressed emotions will back fire at you with
anger,
resentment, depression or other illness.
The best way to communicate is to talk about self,
not to
point fingers with blame. For example if you can say: “I am hurt
because…”
Instead of saying: “You can never do…or you said that…”
Sharing you feelings and emotions will get the
attention of
your spouse and children way better than accusing them.
Be honest when sharing those emotions and the
result will be
surprisingly rewarding.
Difficult communications come from fear. Fear of
not been
understood, loved, forgiven, or fear of been controlled and manipulated.
If you are going through a separation, feeling
heart broken
or entrenched into self-sabotage and delusion; please do not wait.
Search for
Spiritual Healing/Counseling now!
Do not let anger destroy your health and the
relationships
that can be saved.
Anger and resentment will close the door of any
possibility
of true abundance, joy and success.
Empowerment will allow you to take responsibility
for where
(your circumstances) and whom (victim, enabler or perpetuator) you are
today,
without blame or guilt. Self-awareness and courage are necessary to
reach
acceptance and infuse your heart with hope.
Recovering confidence in the self-healing process
is the
goal of my therapy working as mediator between the pathetic ego and the
noble
Higher-Self.
To rebuild the life of your dream, faith will grant
you with
Grace.
Our next "Transpersonal Healing Retreat" will give
opportunities to discover new tools of self-actualization such as
Telepathic Communication,
DNA Reprogramming, Vibrational Attunement, and so much more.
Remember that “There is always a Solution” and
that you are
never alone.
Love and Light,
Fabienne.
