I
just took a trip and I don't mean that it was a fun time in Hawaii, it
was my own trip with my ego! Of course, every one of us has had one of
it's an incident that triggers emotion in the depths of your heart and
manifests as an extremely strong reaction. When it happened you don't
feel good at all, both physically and emotionally. I recognized
immediately the touch of my Ego. Remember that when it hurts, it is
always the ego in action. The ego is making the mental and emotional
movie that runs in the background of our lives and if we ignore its powerful
messages the next step is that it creates physical body pain.
In
this recent personal ego trip, I made a statement and my husband
reprimanded me for not being humble and coming across too strong. I felt
misunderstood - the main reason being that I am very proud of my
strength (I am the Taurus bull after all!) and when coupled with the
compassion and spirituality my other planets bring, I use this strength
in the service of others and assist them to be empowered. What I do and
the success I experience is the direct result of who I am.
One of
the things that hurts the most is when you do not feel understood,
valued or supported by those you love the most (and this is very
commonly your spouse or parent). It can create a serious internal
conflict, which brings on feelings of sadness, anxiety, guilt or even
deep-rooted resentment. Just because you don't feel valued, remember
that what they say is just their opinion. You are the one that knows
your true self - YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE! It is more authentic to be true to
your own character than trying to fake it to please another (and, this
is where the resentment grows, often causing neck, back, and other
internal chronic pain issues).
But also remember that being authentic includes listening and being
able to recognize truths in what others say. Know that when we
choose a mate, we usually choose well. The universe knows that we need
someone who can actually keep the mirror in front of our eyes, so we
don't lose perspective. Learning to modify negative aspects of the
personality is what I call "the lessons" of our incarnation. Your mate
might never tap you on the back to encourage you, but you just have to
get over that. If you have respect for yourself and your unique
qualities, and as long as the respect and tenderness is in the
relationship, you will be just fine.
First know yourself, accept
that you don't have to be perfect, love yourself and push your sleeves
to go to work. Without action,
knowledge is NOTHING! This works both for self-actualization and
business goals manifestations. One of the reason most of those who read
the "Secret" did not succeed is the lack of a precise plan of action. Your
blueprint map must be sustain by faith and trust toward the pure
meaningful intent of your desire. Every aspect of your life has to be
congruent, from your relationships with your friends, co-workers or
neighbors, to the way you treat money, power and health issues.
Everything is interconnected, so when working on been authentic in your
love communications, your business will benefit from synchronicity of
success and more profit as well. "As above, so below", this is why by changing one thing, you change
everything.
Starting somewhere, anywhere is the simple
purpose of our next visionary seminar "Manifesting using Treasure
Mapping" to help you identify your Passion
and Dreams, leading to your Life Purpose. This is a powerful process
and I know that for me, it did reveal many of my gifts and life goals.
Because I found out my Dharma and who my authentic self is, I try every
day to live my life in purpose and attunement to keep the feeling alive
and strong. Without tremendous desire and a specific plan of action,
manifestation cannot take place. Because I now have faith in the
manifestation of all my dreams, I am overjoyed to offer you the same
opportunity.
