During a recent Back to the Cause Past Life Regression Seminar, two
participants wanted to resolve the
identical
dilemma. They both wished to understand and heal a feeling of not being
loved and
valued in the same way as they used to feel at the beginning of
their
marriage. They both felt that
they were
not living the passion that
their heart
and soul was longing for. Because
of
this, they questioned whether or not their current husband is their true soulmate.
After the seminar I
received
an email with feedback from both women and I was struck by how each of
them had
a completely opposite reaction following the Past Life experience.
Here
is the feedback from the first woman:
“My soul is lonely and will not stop being
lonely until
it finds its other half. I feel my current husband does not complete me
and maybe that is why I cannot seem to forgive him...? I don't know?
This
troubles me greatly and is always on my mind. I feel I am constantly
seeking for the half that completes me even though I am married. I feel
my soul will not rest until it finds what is looking for...whatever that
may
be?”
Here was my
answer:“No matter what
happen between you and your current husband I still encourage you to do a
private session to forgive the knight that he was in the past life that
came
through the Life Regression session because until that is done you will
not
find peace. Our karma brings back the lessons until we accept them and
master
them by letting go of attachment to emotions.
The ego mind is
very clever
but only brings despair and loneliness. I wish you to find the courage
to step
beyond the illusion of your current feelings.”
Now let me share
one other participant
feedback from the same seminar:
“I
left feeling so centered and happy, and as
a result I had a great evening with my husband, feeling good and being
good to
each other. We reconnected and were the vibrant fun couple we like to
be, out
meeting new people.”
“I felt such bursting creativity.
I am
sending you images of what I did
to
illustrate the power of what you do. (I haven't pulled out any art
supplies in
months).
This is the painting she did the day
after
the seminar.
What made the
second woman
capable of letting go of frustration and accepting her husband with
unconditional acceptance, while the first woman remained stuck and
searching
for a romantic escape- the kind we see only in the movies?
One difference I
had to
consider is that with the second woman we both worked many times on the
issue
using Palmtherapy and severalPast Life Regressions, and because of this willingness to work,
she finally
showed the willingness to let go. She also had been using
“Healing with
Mother Earth”CD for
over a year to reprogram negative thoughts and
regain confidence.
Because she now
sees that it
was her ego holding onto a need to be right, to be the victim needing to
blame,
she readily allows herself to feed her soul in the ways she most needs.
For
example, she said she enjoyed being out meeting new people, and taking
the time
to be alone, being creative and producing something beautiful out of
nothing.
As a contrast the
first woman
seems to be stuck making ego-driven conclusions about her life and her
destiny,
and because of this, feeling like a victim who does not control her own
happiness. The universe maps out our destiny, but we are still
responsible for
every choice we make. If she chose to pay attention to her pain and its
origins
usingPalmtherapy, Time Line Therapy
and/or moreRegression,
this woman would be able to transform the attachment to the
ego-mind-body pain
that she even feel in her back, neck and shoulder. Maybe she would also
be able
to see examples in her daily life of how her husband is the best person
she can
be with at this particular time in her soul evolution.
She would also be
able to
recognize what people and activities make her truly happy in life and
give
herself permission to do those things more often. When we do not rely on
another person for our own happiness we can very quickly find that our
happiness with that person actually increases!
Life is a mystery;
I can only
invite you to believe that “There is always a
Solution”and that seeking healing will free your ego from pain
and open the doors to creativity.
The question of
the soulmate
existence is in my opinion another issue. Soulmates are rarely romantic
loves;
they can most like it been friendships or family members and sometimes
even
perfect apparent stranger.
What I realized
from my
personal experience is that wholeness is real and can be felt all the
time, and
in any situation.When deeply at peace
we are no longer separated, isolated or frustrated.
Since my life
purpose is to
bring harmony back to the souls that are ready including mine of course,
I am
grateful for the Passion that keeps me going and brings new challenges
every
day to stimulate my creativity. Such passionate energy activates
synchronicity
and creates powerful and exiting new possibilities to discover.
Even thought at
time I feel
torn between so many poles, such as art, writing, teaching and healing, I
believe that all my gifts can and will be used according to the divine
plan of
my destiny.
What is your
divine plan? How
can I assist you in making your path easier and more joyful? Remember
that we
are one, like the fire fighters say: “You go, I go”, well I say: “I go,
you go;
because I am going home, to OUR home.”
So let Peace be
your journey
and destination in harmony, under Grace!
